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08 January Common Sense in Love and RomanceMy Take on 10 common sense:
1) You can only be happy if your partner treats you with love and respect. The same is expected of you, of course. If you're in a one-sided relationship, wake up and smell the roses. 2) Love does not add up mathematically. It is more of a give and take situation. You get some, you give some. 3) Physical attraction can only last that long. Character still decides whether you guys go the long run, or even hit home run. 4) Never start a relationship because of need. Get some hobby if you're bored and lonely. Go out and meet friends, buy a Wii. Going into relationship under pressure or just because you need it is a NO NO. 5) Never ever lie to your own feelings. If you're in with the wrong guy/girl, it's time to go. Being honest is not being cruel to your partner, it is giving both of you a chance at finding true love. 6) Never ever jump into another relationship if you've just broken up with someone. Being always on the "rebound' ensures that you'll be looking for another in the near future. Take time to grow emotionally. Yes, that hot guy/girl is not the solution to your problems. 7) Seriously, I think sex is better reserved for the serious couple going for the home run. If you think having sex is sign of love or that giving sex is the only way to please your partner, something is REALLY WRONG. 8) For guys, spending money on your girl is ok, as long as it is within your limit and she don't take it for granted. Similarly, for girls, it is ok to demand for that shinning rock or branded goods as long as you don't make it your habit or requirement for love. 9) Never ever take your partner for granted. Nobody's perfect. However, some guys can be a real j**K and some girls can be real b***hes. If you're stuck with one, go back to common sense 1), 3) and 5). 10) Finally, it takes time to know someone. Nobody wants to wait nowadays. Everyone seems to be rushing into relationships, breaking and rushing again. If a guy/girl can't even take time to know you, you think he/she gonna stick around for the long run?
Tis is wat i've gone thru tis evening. Very good senses in having a perfect relationship. Your comments are welcomed. Do share your thoughts on relationships, be it happy or bitter ones. Mine juz screw up because i'm a failure in my love life . . . TrackbacksThe trackback URL for this entry is: http://taiaun.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!B05A19025686E8A7!15493.trak Weblogs that reference this entry
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